You know what? I have to write some stuff about this cause it is an annoying subject that, myself and many of my friends have fallen victim to. Yes. Victim lol.... cause we can't even help it at times.
It's like a trap!!
The movie is shit, and I kept seeing FBstatuses last night about how shit the movie was, BUT the MESSAGE couldnt be simpler.
If he doesnt call when he said he would.
If he doesn't make any effort to meet up with you.
If he doesn't ask any questions about you.
If he doesn't wanna share anything about him.
If he doesnt show enough interest.
Then guess what. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!
Dont fight for it either, dont make up excuses for them, dont justify it to yourself. He's NOT doing it for a reason.
Read - he don't care bout you. You're not what he wants.
So tired of hearing girls say 'maybe he's busy, maybe he's tired, maybe he has a lot on his mind, maybe this maybe that'.......
Or maybe he's just a douche who has to be left behind.
So do just that. LEAVE HIM BEHIND AND MOVE ON!.
Not being bitter, just real....
Im gonna put some quotes up from the book, and its not about girls causing 'drama' its just simple facts. And I think the author has phrased it so eloquently :)
Quote 1:
“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.”
― Greg Behrendt
Quote 2:
“If the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start ‘figuring him out,’ please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you. And then free yourself to go find someone that is.”
― Greg Behrendt
Quote 3:
“It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less -- even a vague pathetic facsimile of less -- than you would have ever imagined. Remember always what you set out to get and please don't settle for less. These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.” ― Greg Behrendt
If you really want 'it'.... 'IT' will come. Just not with him. Accept it and move on.
Simples.
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